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A Living Rose

These roses are my mom. Summer 2014 - roses and bees Not my actual, real life mother, of course.   But they are part of her.   They are, in my mind, a living breathing reminder that she spent time on this earth.   That she smiled.   That she loved me.   And that she is gone. They were her roses – one of several bushes planted in my parents’ back yard in Omaha.  My dad was taking them out around 12 years ago and I carefully lugged one from Nebraska to Virginia, in the hopes that it would survive and I could plant it.  It worked.  And now, each spring it blossoms.  This year's blooms It doesn’t make the prettiest flowers – they are a bit scrawny and don’t have many leaves.   The roses do not have a scent, which always disappoints me.   Then stems are short so they are hard to cut and bring indoors.   And the they have some very wicked thorns – I have been cut by them many times.   But for all of th...

DONE!

DONE. My teeny tiny “cancer journey” * is finished. Got the stitches out today at the ocular plastic surgeon, have to go back and have a quick follow-up in 4 weeks, but for all intents and purposes my “little ride on the cancer train” * is over. I am hesitant to include this photo, but in the spirit of honesty, here you go.  Nurse David captured not only my recently removed stitch area, but also every clogged pore on my face and my very unplucked eyebrows.  Here you go, world!   And I realize how LUCKY that makes me.  Starting out with this form of cancer, basal cell carcinoma, has been a primer for me.  It’s the most common type of cancer.  It very rarely metastasizes (spreads to other areas).  If detected early, it can be removed.  I was one of 4 million people in the United States alone to deal with it this year (I was in great company!).  (You can learn more about basal cell carcinoma and other skin cancers here:...